The Sperminator.Saturday Night Beaver. The Bare Bitch Project. Throbbin Hood. I could go on, but I think you get the point. You gotta give them this, they’re creative! I think porn gets a bad rap though. Yes, hiding porn from your S.O. (significant other) can lead to some big issues, but women are watching porn in higher numbers than ever before! Part of this is because we can now watch from home instead of going to rent a video at the sleazy adult bookstore (who wants that!). The other part is that watching and enjoying porn is becoming more socially acceptable. I think that’s awesome!

When I looked online for opinions on pornography and a marriage and found an overwhelming amount of material against porn. (Surprise-surprise) Most of the people I found speaking FOR porn were psychologists. Doesn’t surprise me in the least since we understand, perhaps more than others, how basic your sex drive is and how important sexual health is to a person.

When watching porn with your SO, you can up the sexy factor for 1 but, you are also going to share this experience. Having each other switch off on finding videos and it can give you some insight into what your partner likes or what they may like to try sometime down the road. It could lessen your desire to find sexual release outside of your primary relationship. Also, it allows you each to safely see someone else outside of your relationship as sexual. Watching and fantasizing about someone other than our SO is okay because our partner is right there with us. It would be foolish to not accept that we can get turned on by other people so admit, accept, and move on.

So, the next time you’re feeling frisky, check out Night of the Giving Head, Edward Penishands, or The Bone Ranger. Or fly blind! Go online and check out any of the 100s of sites out there.

 

 

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