I tried to get the hubbs to write this seeing how he’s so very good at it, but he’s not a writer so looks like it’s up to me! Cunnilingus, of course,  is oral sex for women. To me and the hubbs this is an important part of the sexual experience, as it should be. There are few things more intimate then the act of oral sex.  When done correctly,  your partner will experience excitement from bringing you pleasure. Just as,  I would hope,  you ladies enjoy your partners pleasure.

There are some DOs and DONTs  to help you’re SO (significant other) find the right spots.
*DO let your partner know what you want. If you are having sex,  you should be able to discuss sex with your partner.
*DONT bark orders.  You’re not a drill Sargent.
*DO provide gentle direction and encouragement.  Everyone wants to know they’re doing a good job.
*DONT give up or fake an orgasm. You aren’t doing either one of you a favor.
*DO let your SO know that sometimes you might like it rough but other times you might not.
*DONT forget,  no matter how good they are,  your SO can’t read your mind.
*DO relax enjoy it.

Many women are concerned  their scent is too pungent (Boy, that was awesomely  PC, huh? Lol). Let me assure you it isn’t. You’re secreting pheromones, so revel  in that. You’re actually drawing men to you (or women). And don’t suffer fools. After I was told by ex I gave  the best he had ever had. I asked why he’d  never gone down on me.  He said he didn’t “do that.” My response? That thing you like that I was the best at?  I don’t “do” that anymore.  Needless to say,  that break up came quickly  after. Not that in saying  it should be tit for tat necessarily, so to speak, but your partner should be willing at least to reciprocate.
For the men: There is no right or wrong way to perform cunnilingus. Know no two women are alike.  Ask questions.  We’re  not going laugh,  but we will be thrilled you’re  working to please us better!  Make the effort. It will be worth it.
To that ex-boyfriend: Your dick in my mouth was no picnic either.

Party  Down South!

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