I know I’ve been doing a lot of surface posts and part of that is getting my other businesses off the ground, but I started all this to be the next Dr. Ruth so here goes…..
I’m going to say something very unpopular and I hope you all will stick with me on this, guys. I like a big dick. There’s nothing wrong with preferring someone with a big penis. There are plenty of women out there who don’t care and there are plenty of women who prefer a smaller penis. I am not one of them. This is why not waiting until you are married is maybe the most important thing you can do for your marriage. To me, a sexually incompatible marriage would be a travesty.
That being said, whatever you prefer, don’t apologize for liking. I’m pretty lucky. I have a grower and a shower, but I have been with everything from 1 inch to 12+. Statistically, to assuage some concerns, the average flaccid penis is about 3 and a 1/2 inches, while the average erect penis is around 5-6 inches. The average girth for a penis is 4 1/2 inches.This covers around 90% of men. 5% of men have a smaller penis than this, while another 5% have a penis larger than this. Naturally, under-or-over reporting is a huge issue with psychological research in general. This is much more an issue when dealing with something so highly personal to an entire gender. Even so, only about 55% of men are happy with the size of their penis.
The largest penis on record is 18.9 inches, although the owner laments it prevents women from wanting to sleep with him and has expressed interest in having surgery. Micropenis, less than 2.6 inches, affects only 0.6% of men. Penis size also is extremely closely correlated to self-esteem. Just because you feel you may not stack up in the shower, doesn’t mean anything. A flaccid penis and an erect penis are very different and I would imagine not many men are walking around the dressing room with hard-ons.
In history, all over the world, longer penis’ or thicker penis’ or smaller penis’ or whatever was in “fashion” is what people wanted. Wikipedia talks about this, as well as, quite a bit of other information about penis size and how it relates to various males. According to a study out of the University of Texas (cited on Wikipedia), women tend to prefer girth over width. According to a survey in Psychology Today, of over 1,500 readers, almost none of the women express concern over penis size, while 71% of men do! In other words, a lot of you guys are putting undue pressure on yourselves. Only 20-30% of women even care.
If you don’t have one, you better have the other.
I don’t mind being in the minority, but I am!
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