You gotta love a Samantha. Not only does she enjoy sex, but she doesn’t care who knows it. I’ve spoken before about how the hubbs and I both enjoyed our single years, in What’s your number?. The only number that matters to us is this one, 1. The amount of people we have been with since we’ve been with each other. Even so, we both had a great time and the result is we know exactly what we like in bed and we have a pretty fulfilling sex life. Slut-shaming is a nasty little trick that people have been using for years to stop a woman from reveling in her sexual power.

I feel you, Samantha. I’ll admit it, I like a big dick. Yes, it isn’t always the size that matters. I’ve been with men who were quite adept without a larger member. Even so, I knew the man for me was going to be bigger, in all ways. The hubbs is almost 6 ft 3 and has an amazing baseball player build, strong and solid, but not humongous. There’s nothing wrong with knowing what you want in life and what you want in bed. If someone tries to make you feel bad, know that you don’t need to apologize for your choices. Be safe (G is for Glove of love. (AC)), but have fun.

If you’re interested, I love this movement, The Unslut Project. You can find them here.

And one day, when that person comes along, the one you want a forever relationship with, there won’t be a doubt in your mind you want them.

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