For those of you that do not know, Mold-A-Willy is a kit to make a vibrator out of your SO’s (significant others) penis. I mean if one of him is great, think of how much fun two of him would be! Today we’re talking about, you probably guessed, sex toys! One of my best friends growing up was very open sexually and I was lucky enough to learn from her. She had her box of toys, she talked to me about experiences, and I learned that having sex isn’t bad or dirty (Not that my parents made me feel that way, in fact, my dad has told me ad nauseum how good my mother is in bed lol). Sex is enjoyable for a reason.If it wasn’t, we would never be able to ensure the continuation of our species. That doesn’t mean, however, that you shouldn’t include things into your sex life, consensually, to enhance it. A girlfriend of mine and her hubbs are quite fond of role play. I’ve mentioned before that the hubbs and I enjoy a bit of porn sometimes. We also have our own little drawer for our goodies as well.

(As a funny little aside: the hubbs screen name is priorandwood, for two former Cubs pitchers, and his nickname is Woody)

First, you have to realize if you want to use toys in your sexual experience, it isn’t because your SO isn’t satisfying you. Be sure to let them know that, otherwise, they may start to feel they aren’t pleasing you.Rather, you should be looking to toys to add something to your sexual experience to make a great experience excellent! What if you would like to start including some toys, but you aren’t sure where to start. Starting small and working your way up is always a good idea. 

See if your SO would be down to go to a sex toy shoppe in your area with you. Check listings in your area, usually under adult. Cremes, like Sex Fifth Avenue, have a nice minty flavor, as well as, increasing blood flow to the genital area. Flavored lubes are nice as well. They generally will have other fun things like games to play, or body paint. Most likely they will also have lingerie that’s more on the naughty side than say Victoria’s Secret and probably costumes like a French Maid if you want to try some role play. Maybe you like the idea of some fuzzy handcuffs or a feather tickler. Perhaps you would like to try a vibrator. Apparently, the product is now called Clone-A-Willy, but you can find it here.

One of my favorite people, Pat Gallina, owns the Passion Party/Fun Party centre in Memphis, TN. You can find her products here. She calls herself the Rubber Dicky lady and says she sells items to make your Lucy Juicy. She’s a hoot and a half, but you know what, I bet she has an extremely satisfying sex life.

Maybe I’m greedy, but I want it all! 😉

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