I tried to get the hubbs to write this seeing how he’s so very good at it, but he’s not a writer so looks like it’s up to me! Cunnilingus, of course, is oral sex for women. To me and the hubbs this is an important part of the sexual experience, as it should be. There are few things more intimate then the act of oral sex. When done correctly, your partner will experience excitement from bringing you pleasure. Just as, I would hope, you ladies enjoy your partners pleasure.
There are some DOs and DONTs to help you’re SO (significant other) find the right spots.
*DO let your partner know what you want. If you are having sex, you should be able to discuss sex with your partner.
*DONT bark orders. You’re not a drill Sargent.
*DO provide gentle direction and encouragement. Everyone wants to know they’re doing a good job.
*DONT give up or fake an orgasm. You aren’t doing either one of you a favor.
*DO let your SO know that sometimes you might like it rough but other times you might not.
*DONT forget, no matter how good they are, your SO can’t read your mind.
*DO relax enjoy it.
Many women are concerned their scent is too pungent (Boy, that was awesomely PC, huh? Lol). Let me assure you it isn’t. You’re secreting pheromones, so revel in that. You’re actually drawing men to you (or women). And don’t suffer fools. After I was told by ex I gave the best he had ever had. I asked why he’d never gone down on me. He said he didn’t “do that.” My response? That thing you like that I was the best at? I don’t “do” that anymore. Needless to say, that break up came quickly after. Not that in saying it should be tit for tat necessarily, so to speak, but your partner should be willing at least to reciprocate.
For the men: There is no right or wrong way to perform cunnilingus. Know no two women are alike. Ask questions. We’re not going laugh, but we will be thrilled you’re working to please us better! Make the effort. It will be worth it.
To that ex-boyfriend: Your dick in my mouth was no picnic either.
Party Down South!
This post made me and my partner laugh! Apparently the Do’s and Don’ts aren’t a problem on my end! (Phew!)
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That’s a great thing! Glad you enjoyed 🙂
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Love your take on this subject. The quote at the end had me in stitches!!
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heehee
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I like that line, Party Down South! Amen to that!! Glad you got rid of that old boyfriend. And your parting comment: hilarious!! Love it!
Michele at Angels Bark
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Lol yeah he was definitely NOT A keeper!
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oh my gosh, that end quote is too much! 🙂
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Heehee
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With everything going on with me, this was an amazing sideline. Kudos! This was a great theme for this challenge! I will be watching you! I needed this today.
Bidy @ DearLittlerMe.blogspot.com
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Thanks! I’m so pleased! Good stuff coming up too 🙂
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I was doubtful about my X for the AtoZChallenge, after reading this, I will approach it with more honesty. Thanks Blessings Joy
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Excellent! 🙂
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He,he,he. Excellent post 😉
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Why thank you!
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When I was sexually active, before I had to give up sex because of the pain, I can’t tell you how many times I faked orgasm. What a waste of time. 🙂
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Don’t give up sex! Adjust! There are ways you can continue to have a fulfilling sex life with just a bit of adjustment
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And yes it is! 🙂
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Great post! So forthright and funny, but helpful as well. My hubby’s lucked out because while I greatly enjoy doing it for him, I don’t like receiving it. So he gets a pass. 🙂
Also, thank you for the follow and putting me on your blogroll! I am so honoured. Looking forward to getting to know you better 😀
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Glad you enjoyed the post! Receiving can be great! Relax and enjoy the ride! 🙂
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Reblogged this on Risque Bizness: Enter at Your Own Risque.
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Nice article. I haven’t been intimate in a few years, but I do want guidance. When I am.
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😊
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Reblogged this on Self-Actualization Therapy and commented:
This is from the April A to Z challenge this year. To this day, it remains one of my most popular posts!
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