Mature Content: You’ve been warned!
Sexual intimacy is something that only happens with time. As your relationship grows and you have been with someone for a while, you begin to put more trust in them. They learn the things that make you happy in and out of bed and you do the same with them. You have a choice here. You can choose to get “tired” of your relationship and live in a disposable relationship in a disposable world or you can become more in tune to your partner. You can choose to become more or less invested in your relationship. I cannot say a lot of things about life with certainty, but I know if you become more invested in your relationship, you won’t be sorry. People who are married a long time live longer and live happier lives. This is something that has been quantified by scientific research. Forever relationships are better for your health!
As you can see, a lot of people go to outside influences sometimes. There’s nothing wrong with that. I’ve written before that the hubbs and I enjoy a little porn-watching. Sex toys, sure! Have you ever heard of Mold-A-Willy? It’s awesome! You can make a vibrator out of a mold of your SO’s member! A girlfriend of mine and her hubbs like Role Play. There’s nothing wrong with spicing things up sometimes. But….
When you are both there, in the moment, amazing things can happen. The other night, I said to the hubbs, I love that he gets so pleased with himself when I have an orgasm. After almost 15 years, my pleasure is still that important to him. Of course, it goes both ways. His pleasure is just as important to me. All the time. Every time. That’s what makes it special and intimate. I don’t know about you, but I want more out of my life, my love, and my relationship. I want someone who makes an effort over me, just like I do for them. Having that requires trust, and respect, and time, and effort. But that’s okay, because we’re both willing to put that in. Are you?
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