Everyone has different things they enjoy during sex. It’s one of the things that makes sex so great! There are 1000 ways to do it and you and your SO get to find the best way for yourselves. Dirty talk is a pretty common thing, but so many people don’t know how to do it or are too intimidated to try. That’s a shame, because a few raunchy words, during a raunchy act, can really get your engine running.
So how does one actually “talk dirty”? It doesn’t have to be wild and crazy. Curse words are great like fuck me or suck my cock. Suck my cock is a particular fave of the hubbs because its something that is considered naughty in the everyday world. In the bedroom, however, all bets are off. Of course, there are the standbys, like harder, faster. The main component in dirty talk should be something you wouldn’t say when walking around in the world. It is the taboo nature of what is being said that makes it hot. So play around and find what kinds of things sound fun to you. I’ve got to agree with Daft Punk, “Work it harder, Make it better, Do it faster, Makes us stronger.” Be willing to play and have fun. Be willing to talk about what you want and need. It will make you stronger!
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